the best way to deal with most obnoxious men is to nicely ask them why they have no self respect. I mean in a very quiet nice way...I always try to ask "where are your manners, where is your dignity?" before I am froced to tell them to feck off.
another way might be to tell them that their actions are a huge turn off. some guys like to engage in endless debate though, so stick with one line, like
"where are your manners?" (that is a good one that I learned from you just now) --and please go away.
men who hate women and the women who will actually speak to them --we could write a book.
I also dislike pranks and practical joker guys (no dignity) I want a sense of humor that is intelligent. ya know?
he is good at playing games, not reading anyone--beware of him. review what he "read" and how he said it--you will find that it was a game.
and he got you interested!
YOU ARE SO RIGHT it's frightening.
I can smell a bullshitter a mile away so I knew he was one but what hit me was that nobody has ever said such true things about me who'd only met me a day before.
But you are correct, it was a game he played and I was being played! He wasn't even beautiful and handsome, like B, and he got me interested just by telling me stuff. Stuff I'd already knew.
Thanks for the wake up call, Ched, I really needed that;-))
he was probably watching your reactions, and those guys know when to compliment and when to not too... they play people. best to act bored with a guy like that. like nothing is bugging you.
he might be a parasite.
I sure am glad I didn't let him get near my foot!
Act bored is very good advice, but I tend to do that too often. It's like, when in doubt, act bored! Not very nice but in some cases necessary.